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Dominatrix Violet Mays

+Sensual Dominatrix specializing in medical, corporeal and sissification

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“I want to eat the sunbeam flaring in your lovely body… and I pace around hungry, sniffing the twilight, hunting for you, for your hot heart, like a puma in the barrens of Quitratue.” - Pablo Neruda

As a self-described sensual dominant, humiliation isn’t my forte. I embrace laughter in my play and seek to align with intelligent, articulate types as well as those whose innate curiosity has brought them to explore the darker aspects of BDSM psychology. This doesn’t mean that you have to have it all figured out, but only know that I ask for relationships with my clients that foreground mutual respect for the oppositional roles of dominant and submissive.

Sensual domination means that I start slow with the intention of connecting, and only then begin using the techniques of BDSM to cultivate an intense engagement of each of your senses. I consider BDSM to be an artform, and my practie can be likened to a ‘craft’ experience. I like to learn about what you like, and then create something bespoke.

Why sensual BDSM? If I define it as an art that mixes pleasure and pain without sacrificing the intimacy and care involved when two people connect, then I believe that our energies can grow deeper and more self aware, rather than disconnected and disassociative. Practiced in this way, BDSM can be used for self-discovery, to experience new pleasures, to safely explore your submissive side – the side that yearns to surrender to the demands of a powerful goddess, the side that loves to experience pain when administered slowly and with care.

This means that whether you’re a complete beginner, experienced veteran, or aging gentleman looking for a slower approach to a fascinating experience, we’ll go at your speed. My attuned skillset and witty sense of humour means that we’ll have likely fun along the way.

The Look

Dominatrix Violet Mays is a 5'4", slender, all natural, 39 year old caucasian woman with medium length brunette hair and blue eyes.

She is available for Men, and Couples.


Like so many BDSM practitioners, I have lots of interests!

My favourites include exploring a scripted role play, the ever-thrilling medical fetish scene, delving into sissification, exploring a submissive’s corporeal potential, and the beauty of restraint and constraint found in bondage.

To get to know me in more detail, check out my lovingly crafted website. Read my thoughts, see the full guidelines on how to contact me, check out sexy images and take a glance at my wishlist.


Sessions are available from Monday - Saturday, please contact me over email to arrange an appointment.

All scenes and activities are pre-negotiated. Consent - both mine and yours - is always respected and I use the safe word RED.

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